Know your soulmate!❤

Just like for a successful marriage intimacy is one of the necessary factors similarily for a healthy relationship 'emotional satisfaction' is necessary. The relationship goals can be in forming soul connections.

 Its a harsh reality we have often seen relationships ending and people breaking because many neglect their partner's emotional needs. I'm not a relationship expert though but an old school romantic who has some idealistic views. Now don't call me an 18th century person like my mum! :P

A relationship can be blossoming rather than struggling, but how?-- Before knowing other person's emotional needs you should realise your own emotional needs.

Both the partners should balance each other personalities like pieces of puzzle that fit each other and be a like a medium to achieve their life's ultimate purpose. Speaking spiritually, that purpose is for which you are actually made for. The 'one' is whom, that brings out the best in you. 

Love does not come at first sight or first swipe. Its about involving yourself with the person it definitely takes time but can hit you unexpectedly. Quoting the lines of 'Shri Guru Granth Sahib ji',

"Apne gum di numaish na kar

Apne nasib di azmaish na kar

Jo tera hai tere kol khud aayega

 Har roz ohnu paan di khwaish na kar"

Exploring possibilities is not at all a bad thing but being dishonest is and if one's own conscience does not hit him or her, surely karma will do its job. We should share with others what we are actually looking for and seeking and what we are not getting from them.

I'm not here saying to have perfectionism but to open our heart and souls. Let them fly, do not trap them in the golden cage.